Will you marry me? Three simple words to say that traditionally are usually uttered by men, although this trend is changing lately. In some countries, it's women who take matters into their own hands and consequently ask for their beloved's hand! In this short article, we want to tell you what we've found on the web about this topic. Naturally, we'll also try to give you some original ideas for... ask for the hand!
Let's start with what the web suggests. What emerges first is that there are no rules to follow. Sure, we want to be original, but perhaps, caught up in the desire to amaze, our minds become clouded and our ideas fail to materialize into effective words that can convey our feelings to our loved one.
What are the best ways to say this?
Searching on the internet for something new and original doesn't lead to great results, every site offers the same or very similar ideas on where to find the new and original.engagement ring, or on the best words to use to leave our future "stupefied" wife….
The most classic of all is ask her to marry him on one knee, offering her the long-awaited ring and hoping that everything will end in a firm and resolute yes, or at least one hopes so because one must take into account that the answer may not be affirmative, today's woman does not always dream of marriage...
What does this teach us?
It's always better to be sure of the wishes of the "object of our love" to avoid embarrassing situations!
Another idea found more often in various articles is to relive an important past moment, such as the day you met.
Still others prefer marriage proposals where they are not present, perhaps delivering flowers, love poems or the traditional serenade in a modern version, which I emphasize is coming back into fashion, all accompanied by the palpitations of the future aspiring groom as he imagines the pleasantly surprised face of his beloved...
Then we have the most popular suggestions, such as the classic candlelit dinner in a restaurant, or surprising her when she wakes up with the little box containing the unmistakable jewel.
The latest trends that we can find on the web concern more sensational situations, such as organizing small shows in the squares of one's own city, small shows among the people with the aim of proposing oneself to the future wife!
What are Silviadeifiori's ideas?
I'm actually an incurable romantic and a bit of a traditionalist, but if we want to think of a slightly different way to ask for someone's hand, an idea that I find fun is to declare your love by wearing a T-shirt that says: "Will you marry me??”, perhaps during a sport or outdoor activity you practice together, the complicity of nature in certain moments is unparalleled!
Another nice way could be to take your loved one to dinner at a Chinese restaurant where they serve the classic "Fortune Cookies"... guess where it will be?engagement ring?
I tried to think about what I'd like, what would make me shiver, what would touch my heart? It's nothing too sensational, but I'll tell you now:
In the 3.0 era where everything is social, online, I would love to receive a handwritten letter, a long one that tells of a meeting, of a story with its ups and downs but imbued with such a deep love, at the end of which he declares his love, asking me to choose him every day from now on and arranging to meet me, perhaps the following day, in a special place that speaks volumes about us.
Our man will obviously show up accompanied by a ring and "they lived happily ever after”.
If you want to ask with flowers, know that beyond the passionate love that the red rose, there is a flower that more than any other represents a unique and unconditional love: the tulip, of any color and variety.
In this regard, I can tell you that very soon we will publish an article on the tulip regarding its historical value, its meaning, and the worldwide production of it, because it is a very interesting flower.
I hope I've given you a few ideas to pass on to friends looking for the perfect way to propose to their sweetheart.
If you want to share your experience, write to us at press@silviadeifiori.com, we would be happy to share it!
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